Thursday, June 26, 2008

Next Year's Plan

Following along with Elizabeth, here's a rough idea of my plans for next year when Brian and Sean will be starting Kindergarten. This needs to be fleshed out a little more, but I'm feeling pretty excited about the plan as it is shaping up.

Monday
Religion

Math
Language Arts
Phonics/Handwriting
Fine Arts
Science/History

Tuesday
Religion
Math
Language Arts
Phonics/Handwriting
Fine Arts

Wednesday

Religion
  • Discuss Saint of the Week/Liturgical Year
  • Re-read Sunday's Gospel
Math
Language Arts
Phonics/Handwriting
Science/History

Thursday
Religion
Language Arts
Fine Arts
Science/History
  • Nature Study

Friday
Religion
Math
Language Arts
Phonics/Handwriting
I'm super excited about this coming year and the journey we are getting ready to undertake. Lest anyone be concerned about the dreaded "socialization", rest assured that I'm not going to be keeping these kids in a bubble. They will be playing sports this fall, and I'm looking for a homeschool group to meet up with. I just know that I can be my children's best teacher - heck, who knows them better than Chris and I do? :-)

One more saint in heaven

Please pray for Baby Cate's family. Grant them peace in this sad new world they are entering into.

Sunday, June 08, 2008

Birthday Weekend

As my birthday comes to a close, I sit here and reflect on the fun (and some not so fun) times I had this weekend.

The weekend started off nice in the fact that Chris' off Friday was this weekend - hooray, 3 days with all of my boys together! We took the boys to a park around lunchtime, bought Chris' new grill, and swam in the pool.

Saturday saw us head down to my parents' house for a birthday celebration. Lori and Kelsey came over for the fun as well (Lou was up in Gainesville for his MBA class). We went out on the boat, swam, the boys went on the jetski with Grampa, and then played in the "beach" on the river looking for seashells. My mom made Chicken Divan (yummy!), and Vidalia Onion Casserole (another yum!). Brian and Sean had helped Gramma make ice cream earlier in the day, but the freezer door was ajar, so it was more like a thick soup - oh well. We had cake, hopped the kids up on the sugar, and then headed out the door (while listening to Brian wail that he didn't want to leave) and trekked back home.

This morning, I was woken up to the sound of my oldest son whispering "Happy Birthday Mommy" in my ear. What a nice way to wake up! Sean then came in and told me Happy Birthday as well. Colin just gave me a big smile and said "Dah!". We headed off to church together - and that's where the fun began. Brian didn't want to go into either the "little church" (ie. the nursery), or big church. He wanted to go to another church altogether. He was finally convinced to go into church with Chris and I, and he actually did rather well despite the fact that he likes to lay on the kneelers. Next up came my birthday brunch at Perkins. We did pretty well until the end of the meal when people were getting a little fidgety. Back home to no naps for the big boys (but a good one for Colin). I went outside to help Chris put together his grill. When I came in to check on the boys, I found that Sean had an upset tummy. How did I find this out, you ask? Well, it seems that he took his Pull-Up off (that he had had on for the pretend nap), and then couldn't...quite...make...it...to...the...bathroom. Yes, my friends, I was cleaning up poop off his legs, his feet, the floor (of course it was upstairs so it was the carpet)! Happy Birthday to me!

Come later in the afternoon, Brian got horrifically slightly cranky. Let's just say I got a preview of the teenage years, and they ain't pretty! We managed through the multiple, multiple meltdowns, had a wonderful dinner of mussels, crab cakes, bacon wrapped scallops, broccoli slaw, and rosemary roasted potatoes. The boys signed their card to me, and then Sean brought it out and read...all...the...words. Yes, he's only 3.5. We opened my presents (thank you my love!) and had my cake - a lovely almond flavored cake with raspberry filling and white chocolate buttercream frosting. If you live in the area (and don't make cakes yourself), please try a cake from this woman. You won't be disappointed - and all of her proceeds go to therapy for her 5 year old son with autism!

Now I am spending some quiet time here with Chris. Reflecting on all of the many blessings of the last year, and looking forward to the blessings of this coming year.

Friday, June 06, 2008

My Mother-in-Law

There's the old stereotype that mother-in-laws are also known as "monster-in-laws". I know quite a few people who have to deal with this phenomenon.

Unfortunately, I never got the opportunity to meet my mother-in-law. 10 years ago today, Chris' mom succumbed to cancer. 8 years ago next week, I met Chris. If you do the math, the two don't add up.

I'm always sad that I never got to know Sara in this life. From everything I have heard, from my father-in-law, Chris and his siblings, and even the other "out-laws" of this family, Sara was a warm and kind-hearted soul. She was always giving and loving. There is a gaping hole in this family since she died - one that can not be filled. The pain gets easier to bear, but it is always there, and especially on this day and other important days in our lives.

Chris wrote the most amazing, beautiful letter to his mother on this the 10 year anniversary of her death. Please take a moment to read it.

Sara, please know how much I love your son and grandsons, and that I'm taking care of them here until we all meet again.

Love,

Wednesday, June 04, 2008

Card Deck Bible

I received this from my Grandma in the mail today. I thought it was so profound. I'll never look at a deck of card the same way again.

"A Deck of Cards"


A young soldier was in his bunkhouse all alone one Sunday morning over in Afghanistan. It was quiet that day, the guns and the mortars, and land mines for some reason hadn't made a noise. The young soldier knew it was Sunday, the holiest day of the week. As he was sitting there, he got out an old deck of cards and laid them out across his bunk. Just then an army sergeant came in and said, "Why aren't you with the rest of the platoon?" The soldier replied, "I thought I would stay behind and spend some time with the Lord." The sergeant said, "Looks like you're going to play cards." The soldier said, "No sir, you see, since we are not allowed to have Bibles or other spiritual books in this country, I've decided to talk to the Lord by studying this deck of cards." The sergeant asked in disbelief, "How will you do that?"

"You see the Ace, Sergeant, it reminds me that there is only one God.
The Two represents the two parts of the Bible, Old and New Testaments.
The Three represents the Father, the Son, and the Holy Ghost.
The Four stands for the Four Apostles: Matthew, Mark, Luke and John.
The Five is for the five virgins. There were ten but only five of them were glorified.
The Six is for the six days it took God to create the Heavens and the Earth.
The Seven is for the say God rested after working the six days.
The Eight is for the family of Noah and his wife, their three sons and their wives, in which God saved the eight people from the flood that destroyed the earth for the first time.
The Nine is for the lepers that Jesus cleansed of leprosy. He cleansed ten but nine never thanked Him.
The Ten represents the Ten Commandments that God handed down to Moses on tablets made of stone.
The Jack is a reminder of Satan. One of God's first angels, but he got kicked out of heaven for his sly and wicked ways and is now the joker of eternal hell.
The Queen stands for the Virgin Mary.
The King stands for Jesus, for he is the King of all kings.
When I count the dots on all the cards, I come up with 365 total, one for every day of the year.
There are a total of 52 cards in a deck; each is a week, 52 weeks in a year.
The four suits represent the four seasons: Spring, Summer, Fall and Winter.
Each suit has thirteen cards; there are exactly thirteen weeks in a quarter.
So when I want to talk to God and thank Him, I just pull out this old deck of cards and they remind me of all that I have to be thankful for."

The sergeant just stood there and after a minute, with tears in his eyes and pain in his heart, he said, "Soldier, can I borrow that deck of cards?"

Author Unknown